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Connie Dexter Spicer, Family History Bio

Connie Dexter Spicer, Family History Bio

Connie Dexter Spicer
Self-portrait 2021

Connie Dexter Spicer is a long-time family history buff.  Her paternal grandmother got her started when she was a young teen.  She took a high school class leading her to collect data and keepsakes over the years.  At family reunions, she was the one that collected the family trees.

She built her family history well past her grandparents and great grandparents on both sides of her family.  Like many amateur historians, she ventured out to courthouses and cemeteries, learned what to look for, collected documents and photos.

At the start, her family tree was just over 80 people.  It soon had proven relatives from the US to England, Ireland, Scotland, New Zealand, Turkey, Australia, Germany and even Japan.  It became an international family history project.

A New Family History Goal

Her mother, Karen Dexter, asked whether she had any Revolutionary War Patriots in her lineage.

Her mother, Karen Dexter, asked whether she had any Revolutionary War Patriots in her lineage.  Karen wanted to join the National Society of the Daughters of the American Revolution (NSDAR) before it was too late.  She views it as a great honor to be part of the society.

That request led Connie to research potential patriots.  Although not familiar with the process, she got help from her cousin, Barb Johns, long involved with the society.  Barb identified Patriot Ensign Mitchell, Pvt., of New York.

So, Connie pulled together the data proving hers and her mother’s lineage to Ensign Mitchell.  Both she and her mother were approved just weeks later.

Now focused on building the stories of her people, she researches their lives through newspapers, Google and DNA sources.   She hopes sharing the stories as part of her blogs encourage the younger folks in her life to take over one day.

Work Life

Connie’s background is in arts/media. She’s been a disc jockey, AV producer and podcaster. She still maintains blogs in multiple family genealogy websites for her and her husband, David’s families.

Between them are 6 grown kids and 8 grandkids.  They enjoy karaoke, photography and hiking together when they can get away.

You can read her blogs at DexterGenealogy.com, OurSpicerFamily.com or hear the first episodes of her podcast “Speaking in Relative Terms” on the DexterGenealogy website.

Hi, All! An Introduction by Sue Leffler Kitchen

An Introduction by Sue Leffler Kitchen

Thanks for allowing me to join! I’m descended through the Bruer/Brewer line.  My grandmother, Amanda Marie Brewer, was  the daughter of John Byron Brewer & Anna Mary Erbe.

Sue Leffler Kitchen family
Sue Leffler Kitchen family.

John Byron Brewer was the son of Harry S. Brewer.  Grandma (Amanda) & Grandpa (Abraham C. Loeb) had ten kids (nine who lived; one still living) and all but two had kids. The family is still growing thanks to the grandkids, great-grands, and in some cases, the g-g-grands of those kids.

Although all of them are interested in what I find, I’m the only one who has actively searched and compiled records & stories. I hope one of them will take up the cause when I’m gone.

 

Information From The Notes Of Alan King

Note from Connie: Alan was one of the very first connections I made who helped me connect with each of the UK Dexters.

His ongoing research, his knowledge of the area and his curiosity about “Dexters” (LOL) brought me in great part to where we now are.

Thank you for your commitment, Alan.  Your notes, photos, and personally supporting me through some very black times are not forgotten.  I hope you all will enjoy the coming information.

Now for some local information on the area:

 

STAINES BAPTIST CHURCH Notes by Alan King pg 1
STAINES BAPTIST CHURCH Notes by Alan King

STAINES-CCHURCH P6-Notes by Alan King
STAINES-CCHURCH P6-Notes by Alan King

STAINES-BAPTIST CHURCH-Notes by Alan King p2
STAINES-BAPTIST CHURCH-Notes by Alan King p2

STAINES-CCHURCHP18-Notes by Alan King
STAINES-CCHURCHP18-Notes by Alan King

STAINES-CCHURCHP34-Notes by Alan King
STAINES-CCHURCHP34-Notes by Alan King

 

STAINES-CCHURCHP48-Notes by Alan King
STAINES-CCHURCHP48-Notes by Alan King

STAINES-CCHURCHP49-Notes by Alan King
STAINES-CCHURCHP49-Notes by Alan King

STAINES-CCHURCHP320-Notes by Alan King
STAINES-CCHURCHP320-Notes by Alan King

 

 

 

Family Page Galleries, Post Pages and Authorship on The Site

Out of necessity, and in order to make sure that we are correctly linking data from and to the correct individuals, I am proposing that each of us (who are interested in this process) begin making nested family blog posts which will include photos from our own personal archives.

Doing so will help in a few ways: first, I won’t feel so responsible for errors…  (ok, smile if you will)… Secondly, we can build the family post pages in greater fashion while leaving the family PAGES (older, more historical data) intact and available to build upon those as well.  And third, you will each have control over your posts, and your authorship will be duly noted on each page.  That authorship is most important in establishing your rights to the material you post.

For example, I know that Bill Guest has a truly amazing article that will soon be posted regarding his Grand Uncle, Eric Standring (I believe that is his correct label… Bill? If I’m wrong, please correct me, it’s been a bit since I read it… but as I recall, Eric was your grandmother’s brother?).  Making sure Bill (and his wife Sue) has/have the appropriate attribution is important, and topping it off, he or they will be able to add photos to the story which will add a much more human feel and longer term impact.

I would also like to encourage each of you to write an author statement.  It would be the final paragraph, is biographical in nature and should be italicized to distinguish between your post and your statement.   If you will follow along a moment, each of you with authorship attribution (which most of you will have if you intend to contribute) when you complete your post (but before you actually publish it) should scroll down the dashboard page until you see the box labeled “Author”.  Click on the name in the box and scroll until you see your own, then select it.  When you post the page, it will name you as the Author automatically and as the articles are dated and timed, your claim to the copyright is fairly complete, short of submitting to the offices of copyright.

You are also able to upload audio and video files, which can be effectively added to a page as well. Feel free to address anyone reading as if you are telling the precise story you want.  When you close the page, your author statement will conclude the page.

While we all want to share the joys of our children and pets and more, I would prefer to not get into overkill.  We might offer a “Dexter Pets” page of photos, but the kids stick with the best of the best.  Special events, yes; recognitions, etc.  Things which put them in historical context – military service or a fraternal organization that may be documented as important to our descendants… But everyday posts can go onto Facebook or other social media for sharing.

I’ll do a starter page and see if we can build upon that.  Our collages should wind up being quite fascinating.

Love to all,

Connie

PS: Here is a sample author statement.  If you need help, let me know and we can talk it out.

Connie Dexter Spicer has been investigating her family origins, since, as a teenager-one of her school social science classes was a study of family history after the film Roots came out. The information she gathered then became the basis for all her research since. And, since those modest beginnings lead to connecting with cousins all over the world, it has been a very merry adventure for her.